And all we got were these sunglasses. You can't even see out of them. Anyway, she left us with dad while she was gone. When we were at the pediatrician's office after she got back, she explained to the doctor that she'd been out of town and wasn't sure about a few things. The doctor looked a little shocked and asked who we were with? Mom said dad, and the pediatrician started asking how that went because her husband had fed their kid a cheese and ketchup sandwich at some point and she worries about kids left with dad. Mom told her confidently that dad probably does a better job than she does. Truth be told they do about equal. We'll reserve judgment yet on whether that is equally good or equally bad. There are a lot of adult years coming and adult problems for us to blame on them.